Created byTaylor Rathus

New York, NY

Bringing Up Boys Guide

Welcome to my guide! You'll find resources for raising boys with positive masculinity, along with some of my most-used products.

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NFTX

NFTX Superhero Capes

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Taylor RathusCan't live without“Young kids love to dress up in costumes, and enabling boys to dress up in whatever costume they want encourages creativity, empathy, and emotional expression, while challenging gender stereotypes. This helps boys develop a balanced sense of identity that values kindness, cooperation, and inclusivity. ”

Levoit

LEVOIT Classic300S Ultrasonic Smart Top Fill Humidifier

$69.99

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Taylor RathusCan't live without“We use this humidifier every day during the winter and also when our son is sick during the warmer months. It has a sleep setting that is automatic so that the room remains at prime humidity throughout the night while your babe is asleep. ”

Susan Verde

I am me

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Taylor RathusCan't live without“This book promotes positive masculinity by encouraging boys to embrace their unique qualities and express their memotions freely, challenging traditional stereotypes. It fosters self-acceptance and emotional intelligence, showing that it's healthy for boys to experience a wide range of feelings. ”

Robb Pearlman

Pink is for boys

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Taylor RathusCan't live without“This book reframes the stereotypical blue/pink gender binary and empowers kids to express themselves and to enjoy whatever they love to do. ”

hannah andersson

hannah andersson boys briefs

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Taylor RathusCan't live without“Not only are these so soft and hold up so well in the wash, but I love that they have so many different patterns and colors that aren't too obviously gendered. ”

Karamo Brown

I am Okay to Feel

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Taylor RathusCan't live without“This book is one of my favorites to read to my son as it's absolutely adorable and a great example of positive masculinity. ”

Thought-Spot

Thought-Spot I Know What to Do Flipbook

$18.95

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Taylor RathusCan't live without“This is a great tool for parents or teachers to use for their young boys who are on a journey to understand and regulate their emotions. ”

IKEA

IKEA RASKOG Utility Cart

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Taylor RathusCan't live without“This has been a life saver over the years. When my son was a newborn, I used this mainly for my breast pump and all materials related to feeding. I could wheel it around with me wherever I went. Since then, it has been used for various toy storage and is always one of the most useful items in my home. I love that it is small enough to kind of disappear, and that it's portable enough to go wherever I need it. ”

THERMOS

THERMOS FUNTAINER Water Bottle with Straw - 12 Ounce

$18.25

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Taylor RathusCan't live without“A great water bottle that's lightweight and keeps water cold. On top of that, I like how many options the brand has for colors and characters, allowing for self expression. ”

Loog

Loog Mini Acoustic Guitar

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Taylor RathusCan't live without“For the music lovers out there, your kid can actually learn how to play the guitar! This is perfect for kiddos because of the size, light weight, and 3-string design, which allows kids as young as 3 to learn chords and basic skills. There's also an app with video lessons and chord diagrams to help them enjoy learning. Engaging in music helps boys develop empathy, sensitivity, and creativity - allowing them to explore and express their individuality in a positive and constructive manner. ”

Bringing Up Boys

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Taylor RathusCan't live without“This is my product, and your ultimate roadmap for raising the next generation of men. I combine real-life parenting experiences with my expertise in and commitment to dismantling toxic masculinity. Bringing Up Boys supports boy parents in raising compassionate, empathetic, expressive, and strong men. Whether you're seeking personalized guidance through one-on-one consulting, strategic insights for fostering inclusivity at your school, or immersive learning experiences through workshops, I’m here to empower you. Go to www.bringingupboysbetter.com to work with me! ”

Helix

Mattresses

Helix Kid Mattress

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Taylor RathusCan't live without“We just bought this for our son's first "big kid bed" and it is amazing quality. It also has two sides: a firmer side for kids 3-7, and a softer side for kids 8-12! ”

HALO

Swaddles & Wearable Blankets

HALO 100% Cotton Sleepsack Swaddle

$29.99

Cotton Imported The original wearable blanket replaces loose blankets in the crib for a safer environment; the 3-way swaddle ensures your baby's best sleep and an easy transition when it's time to stop swaddling; number 1 choice of hospital nurseries to promote safe sleep Made with 100% cotton fabric, double knit construction is soft and a little stretchy, perfect for swaddling; TOG Rating of 1.5 offering the right comfort for moderate seasons or climates, and can be layered with warmer sleepwear for cooler temperatures Generously sized swaddle fasteners offer adjustability for a perfect fit; 3-way adjustable swaddle allows Arms-In to reduce startle reflex, One-Arm-Out for self-soothing, and Two-Arms-Out for easy transition from swaddling to Halo's SleepSack Inverted zipper opens from the bottom for easy diaper changes without undoing the swaddle; sleeveless to reduce the risk of overheating; arm and neck openings sized for a safer fit Available here in Newborn size designed for babies weighing between 6 and 12 pounds who are generally 0-3 months old and 19-23 inches long; discontinue swaddling when the baby shows signs of rolling over or breaking out of the swaddle wrap.

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Taylor RathusCan't live without“Something I used daily for my son for a good 2 years. We started with the velcro sacks and then moved to the regular Halo sleep sacks. ”

LittleHippo

Sound Machines & Soothers

LittleHippo Mella: Ready to Rise Children's Sleep Trainer, Night Light, Sound Machine and OK to Wake Alarm Clock for Kids

$49.99

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Taylor RathusCan't live without“Your toddler definitely needs to be ready for this clock in order for it to be useful, but at age 3, it works really well for my son and has helped him understand when it's time to go to sleep and when it's time to wake up. It's also super cute. ”

Yogasleep Hushh Portable White Noise Sound Machine

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Sound Machines & Soothers

Yogasleep Hushh Portable White Noise Sound Machine

$23.99

EFFECTIVELY MASKS NOISE: Beloved by generations since 1962, Yogasleep is the trusted leader in white noise machines. Our signature sound, reminiscent of a gentle breeze, has helped millions experience better sleep. The Hushh effectively blocks out disruptive noises, making it easier for baby to sleep undisturbed wherever you are. SOOTHING SOUNDS & NIGHT LIGHT: Take control of your sound environment and choose from three calming sounds: bright white noise, deep white noise, or gentle surf, and adjust the volume to create the perfect sleep environment for baby. The Hushh's gentle amber LED night light emits just enough of a glow to comfort and guide you in the night without disturbing baby's slumber. COMPACT & PORTABLE: Designed for life on the go, the Hushh is the perfect travel companion for any family. At just 3.5" in diameter and 3.8 ounces, this travel sound machine fits perfectly in any diaper bag or backpack and comes with a flexible baby-safe clip for easy fastening to a stroller, car seat, or crib. USB-RECHARGEABLE: Forget batteries and electrical outlets—Hushh can operate 6+ hours on a single charge, and comes with a convenient USB cable for recharging. Please note: This sound machine is intended for portable use and must be turned off and unplugged every 14 days. If not turned off and unplugged, the unit may freeze or experience impacts to performance. SIMPLE TO USE & CHILD SAFE: With its one-handed operation and intuitive interface, the Hushh is a breeze to use, even when your hands are full. The child safety lock feature ensures settings remain unchanged by curious little fingers, providing consistent comfort for your baby without any interruptions. To clean, simply spot clean or wipe down your unit.

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Taylor RathusCan't live without“Portable and affordable. ”

Peebuddies

Changing Pad Covers

Peebuddies Diaper Changing Cover

$29.99

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Taylor RathusCan't live without“Changing newborn boys' diapers can be extra messy. These help! ”

Eucerin

Diaper Creams

Baby Eczema Relief Body Cream

$9.77

Colloidal Oatmeal, Ceramides and Licorice Root: This Eucerin eczema cream for babies is formulated with Colloidal Oatmeal (a skin protectant), Ceramide-3, and Licorice Root Extract Clinically Proven Formula: Eucerin Baby Eczema Relief Cream contains a clinically proven moisturizing formula that relieves dry, itchy, eczema-prone skin Free Of: This Eucerin Baby cream for eczema relief is steroid free and fragrance free, and is appropriate for use on adults, children, and babies 3 months and older 24 Hour Hydration: Eucerin Eczema Relief Baby Cream delivers 24 hour hydration, and helps to strengthen the skin's protective barrier Includes one (1) 5 ounce tube of Eucerin Baby Eczema Relief Body Cream

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Taylor RathusCan't live without“My son has had eczema for most of his life, and this is by far my favorite lotion I've tried for him. It is easy to spread, does not leave a film, is unscented, is lightweight, yet is substantive enough to hydrate and work. ”

HIPHOP PANDA

Towels, Robes & Washcloths

Baby Washcloths- Hypoallergenic (HIPHOP PANDA)

$14.99

90% Rayon Made from Bamboo/10% Cotton Imorted 【TWO Promises】① The latest textile technology, double-layer materials.Ultra thick & absorbent baby towels. Excellent longevity makes them full reusable. ② HIPHOP PANDA Premium wash clothes. Ideal solution for babies's skin. 【Magical 2 - Layer】The latest textile technology, Luxury 2 - Layer face washcloths; Perfect, soft, warm, and absorbent. 【ECO FRIENDLY】 Towels rayon made from bamboo help preserve the environment by reducing deforestation and waste. We care about babies and nature. 【Premium, Skin Friendly】 - Natural and healthy baby bath towels for babies and kids. 【PERFECT BABY SHOWER GIFT】 –Perfect for baby registry, this is anessential item for new parents, the more the merrier where baby washcloths are concerned! These washcloths are suitable for both boys and girls, easy to wash and very durable too. Each set of washcloths with a pretty package.

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Taylor RathusCan't live without“The softest washcloths--I've used them for 3 years now. ”

Boon

Activity Centers

Boon Pivot Toddler Tower

$119.99

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Taylor RathusCan't live without“My son always wants to help in the kitchen. Toddler step stools are amazing for promoting positive masculinity by encouraging boys to particiate in cooking and household tasks, fostering family collaboration, and breaking down traditional gender roles from an early age. ”

GROWNSY

Pacifiers & Accessories

GROWNSY Electric Nasal Aspirator, Baby Nose Sucker,

$39.99

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Taylor RathusCan't live without“The non-electric ones just don't cut it IMO! I'm a little addicted to this. ”